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why! we fear falling in love

The thing we call love these days, that ain't love. Love is beautiful, it's a best and worst feeling anyone could ever feel. People getting into relationships because everyone else is, cannot be real love. Dating someone just because you want to get over your douchebag ex,that can't be real love. Being with someone just because you don't want to feel lonely, can't be real love.

 I feel sad how people use the term "loving" in the worst way possible. Yes, I know your ex was a fuckboy who just wanted your body and lie. Yes maybe the girl you gave your heart broke it into pieces. Yes I know trying the best but still he left you. 

Travel Check-list

When I’m traveling, there are a few specific “needs” that I plan for

First things first: The bag. Your closest companion and in-flight BFF.
Lately, I’ve been using my favorite bag.  It’s big — not baggy — holds up well and fits everything I like to carry.
Here’s what’s in my bag when I travel:

Essentials:

• Phone, keys, wallet.
• More specifically: To organize receipts, cash and cards.
• Cute and colorful passport holder.
  

  Electronics:

  Because, well, duh.
  
• Tablet or iPad.
• Macbook (with a protective).
• Mophie charger and/or iPhone 6s.
• For long flights, a Brookstone, power bank.
•  headphones,
• If I’m bringing my cameras: DSLR. 700D
• For international travel, functional adapter
  .

  Comfort:

• A cozy, reversible scarf or snood.
• Sunglasses: Whether they’re aviators or classics, sunnies are essential.
• I travel wearing my bulkiest shoes, so I pack a pair of foldable flats, too.
• For long flights: extra socks, an eye mask, memory foam travel pillow and travel blanket
  .

  Beauty & make-up musts:

  Because sunglasses only hide so much — and you never know who you’ll meet…
  
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• Chapstick and/or lip ice lip balm
• Origins GinZing refreshing eye cream
• browbar by w7,
• Toothbrush and mini toothpaste
•  gentle cleansing wipes
• organikare Turmeric body butter — my favorite!
• olive-oil.
• Make-up musts: Tinted moisturizer, NARS face, cheek & eye palette and mascara.
• lipstick & lip gloss by professional makeup collection, which are ideal for on-the-go touch-ups.
• perfume
• NARS matte lip pencils — I am always wearing “Never Say Never.”
  

  Health: 

  Sometimes traveling places are fucking disgusting. As a result, I need hand sanitizer and tissues to go — always.
  
• Aspirin
• Vitamins
• Hand sanitizer
• Emerge-C packets
• Tissues (I’ve been using Puffs Purse Packs and SoftPacks — love both).
• Tampons/ pads, band-aids and Visine are also good to have.
  

  Sustenance:

  
  
• Water bottle: I carry one with me and fill it once I’m through security.
• Fruit and produce if I’m traveling domestically. You can’t bring those across the border, though. (I’ve learned the hard way.)
• Nourish Snacks: I’ve blogged about these portion-control snack packs before, and with good reason. Each is 200 calories (or less) and made with all-natural, non-GMO ingredients.
  

  Miscellaneous:

  Here are some nice-to-haves:
  
• Umbrella
• Laundry bag
  
  
  Of course, we all have different needs and travel styles. Your list probably varies based on your destination, length of travel and the like.
  
   Regardless, though I hope you found this helpful.
  What’s one essential item that’s got a guaranteed spot on your packing list? let me know.
  
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Top Ten Reasons to be an Architect

As you know i'm a student of architecture department. Now it's my studio-3 and I thought I would come up with a list of reasons why you should be an architect.
1. It’s a lifestyle, not a job.
Architects typically tend to think about architecture all the time, I know I do. Not just the big ‘A’ type of buildings or projects, but every little thing from every where I go. I go somewhere and start looking at materials, form, massing, lighting, etc. If I take a trip somewhere, I start by planning it around the buildings I want to visit. Probably 90% of all the books I buy (not including children’s titles) are about architecture.
2. People respect architects.
Even if they don’t really understand what we do, there is a perception that architects are ethical and responsible and will endeavor to make the right decision to our own detriment.
3. Job is constantly evolving.
Architects are not artists – we have to address building technology and programming.  Architects create new design concepts that push how modern day construction is executed. Architecture is one of the few professions that is never static.
4. Artistic freedom and personal expression.
As an architect, we are given certain project parameters that help guide the direction of our projects. We are then given the freedom to pursue the artistic embodiment of those parameters. 10 architects with the same client and the same project parameters will provide 10 different solutions. Every time.
5. You can be your own boss.
You can be your own firm of one and still be a viable service provider on almost any size project. You can enter contests and win commissions for major projects by yourself – I can’t think of another vocation that can provide similar latitudes.
6. There are tangible results.
Anyone who has ever seen a building that they worked get built knows exactly what I am talking about. I am still excited to watch one of my projects getting built – it’s like having your own laboratory where you can experiment and refine things that you consider to be important and worthwhile. It ties into the artistic freedom listed in #4 but architects generally have a sense of ownership on every project they work.
7. We can positively impact peoples lives.
It is rewarding to develop a personal relationship with your client, particularly when you know that the process will yield a more fruitful end product. By understanding the process, our clients appreciate the product. By appreciating the product, they are acknowledging the role it plays.
8. Experimentation is expected.
Despite architecture having to contain building sciences and technology, the final abstract product does not have a definitively right or wrong answer. Because no two architects will ever come up with the exact same solution given an identical set of parameters, there is a liberating sense that you are here for the purpose of imparting your own personality on the project. We are expected to try new things, explore different materials, and incorporate emerging technologies into every project.
9. Longevity of Career.
You can practice the profession of architecture for as long as you want – you’ll always be an architect even when it isn’t your job anymore. Most architects don’t really start to become good until later in life – I’m talking in their 50’s. I imagine that you have to come to some sort of understanding as to who you are as an individual before you can start to be consistent with imparting your imprint onto a building.
10. Incredible variety of options within the profession.
Unlike other professions, you graduate with a degree in architecture without having to know what type of architecture you are going to focus on. This is really great because when you graduate, you don’t know enough about the possibilities to know what you want to do. You can float between big and little firms, the role of project architect, designer, or management. You can work on building types from different market sectors like hospitality, residential, civic, retail, etc. and will still be an architect. Your degree will have a marketable value beyond the time of your immediate graduation.
Bonus.
We can wear ridiculous eye wear and get away with it.
People expect architects to be a little bit nerd mixed with creative artist. This conflict of known social paradigms allows generous liberties to be taken with your personal billboard (but you have to earn it).

start a new chapter of my life

it was really a busy  Fall semester so that i couldn't write a single blog about me.In my last blog was about my ups and down admission and name bla bla problems. after facing all those problems, i got myself admitted in AIUB (American international university of Bangladesh). And my department is architecture. yes, the dream that cared in my young days. It just come true. AIUB just transferred them in permanent campus, i'm doing my class there. Its really satisfying. every next day i pass here, fallen love with it. Here some pictures of my campus..

It was 26 sep,2017 i start my Archi. life here. From first everyone was in my class very friendly and teachers oh! they are just love. being studio-1 fond them i feel so lucky. i had a lots of fun,drama, learn my new way to solve problems. but still zero! i know. I have to walk long way from here need to learn more.
the day we start studio-1 student number was 35 and after finish Fall semester now we are 31 student. I know more will go. And It's common in this department. Study in Architecture is not that easy or beautiful as their works or project seems like. Being a Architect can be a dream but living and stuck with the word is hard to explain.

1st day

team work |  covered  with stereo foam 

2week

off-time

me in saree for the first time in Aiub attending my studio-1 exhibition 

ayeman's birthday party at her place

mathematics fact

1st exhibition of studio-1

studio quantity time with classmates and seniors

folk fest 

folk fest

1st night stay seniors place

fun time

nap time | fun time

1st tour at national parliament house

collage submission day 

late night dinner

last studio-1 class of  Fall semester 

graphics class fact 

fresher's party-2017

late night outing

hangout after semester 

friends for ever

i wanna sleep a little more 

besti <3

With faculty members 

I can remember the day I start my journey from that day I can count what time and which hour I sleep. first week I sleep for 3day 2night late for 4hr. And it was just starting. After that, I forget to eat in time. Nowadays going like owl! like an Architect student.

here I found some best friends, who are just like me! full of love, craziness, positiveness, can handle me and I can do the same thing with them too, cuz we are the same!
here I found some special guardians, seniors! they are my own brothers who were born to another mum. Maybe the reason one mum can't able to manage us easily altogether. they do so much care for me.
today I'm done with my studio-1. I have lots of memories from here, I'll carry them all my life.

what's going on mylife!

Me..got some very good marks in past years. if i tried maybe i can get chance to admit any government university in Bangladesh. But i stop, myself.
Here in Bangladesh students need to take classes in some coaching causes. Okay, fine we don't know what the question may come in admission exam, that's why we used took place there. Even I was also a part of that rules. My family wanna see me as being a Doctor. especially my mum. So, i got admitted in Retina( medical admission preparation class) and started my class.
Everything was going well but problem come when my H.S.C result published and there my name... my full is JESI AKTER SUJANA and from Dhaka Education Board, they made it JESI AKTER SUYANA.
After that I complained them. It was hard to proved that their fault, not mine. GOVT.people, facking people. So I clam myself and asked to do next and followed their rules. It's being 2 month almost. My mum spend money blindly to fix up everything at least before my admission form fill up. The dateline gone be finish in a week and still now my name not fix. For them today couldn't fill up my form. WOW! salute Bangladeshi govt. Thank you Dhaka education board.
So, now I'm going to fulfill my dream line. to be honest my dream line never can stop in a point. hahaha!

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THINGS THAT HAVE STOPPED ME FEELING SO LONELY

Loneliness is not something that I've been shy to talk about over the past few years. And I think whether we like to admit it or not it's something that we all struggle with from time to time and especially in our 20's when our lives are completely different from what they used to be at school or university. Loneliness is something that is always seen as such an awful somewhat embarrassing thing which makes the whole emotion feel so much worse than it needs to be which makes people even more scared to admit they might feel a little lonely. And I know in the past it's something that I've felt very ashamed of but I know that feeling that way ultimately doesn't change anything and it's down to us to make a difference and here are the things that I've found really to help when it comes to loneliness.

LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF

Learning to truly love and appreciate who you are as a person is without a doubt one of the hardest things to do and it's a long journey but it's something that I think is so important. It's something that I've said before on this blog and it's probably somewhat obvious but ultimately people can come and go out of our lives and they never have any obligation to stay. So having a good relationship with who we truly are and enjoying our own company is something that I've found to be an integral part of not feeling so alone in this world. Some people might think spending time on your own and really enjoying it is a little odd but it isn't and hanging out by myself and taking myself on little dates is something I Saviour and really look forward to.

BEING BRAVE ENOUGH TO REACH OUT 

Something I'm still working on is being brave enough to reach out to other people. Because chances are if you feel lonely then other people are feeling lonely too and especially when you're shy it can be so scary to reach out to other people. And there are so many reasons why we feel nervous to reach out but it's very rare that those fears actually come true. Making new friends when you're an adult and even keeping hold of the existing relationships that you have is incredibly difficult and not something I find is spoken about enough. Even if you don't work at home by yourself making long-lasting friendships outside of the workplace is so difficult but it isn't possible. Social media is such an awesome tool for this and it can really break down those barriers. Luckily in 2017 it isn't so frowned upon to meet someone in real life who you've been talking to on the Internet. 

GETTING OUT 

I'm a total homebody there is no denying that but something I do find pretty important when you know loneliness is something you suffer with is getting out of the house. Even if you don't speak to somebody else just being around other human beings is something I've found incredibly helpful. There is an age old saying that you can still be in a crowded room and feel alone and whilst for the most part I believe that. However, there is something comforting about being around other human beings. Places I tend to do this is at the gym or in a coffee shop if I decide to have a day out of the house to work. As I work from home and obviously don't have colleagues [unless you count the dog which I do, to be honest] just being around other living and breathing humans is something that's helped me so much and especially when I feel slightly stir crazy because I've spent far too much time by myself.

READING

Getting lost in a good book isn't something I've properly done in a while if I'm completely honest. But it's something I know is so good especially when I'm either feeling really rubbish or need to lose myself to another world for a little bit. Whilst pod-casts are something I turn to typically when I want to learn something new a good book is what I turn to when I want to be entertained and forget about the real world and become enamored with a fake one. And of course, we all know how awesome reading is for winding down for the day and doing fun that doesn't involve a screen. The only problem is when you get swept up in a really awesome book and end up reading well into the night...we've all been there I'm sure.